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Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Happy birthday, Brother. (: @ 10:33 PM
Here's your surprise birthday dedication, Brother !It may seem that we only know each other for a really short time only. But hahaha its not!
Eversince 19April'08 our friendship started, after that funny carnival day incident. Tsktsk.
Though we're not from the same year. & I didnt really liked you the day i saw you. Haha.
But we could get along really well. First, i called you Didi, cos Sherilyn was my mei. Laughs.
Slowly it became Mickey Didi. Much laughters. & You would always treat me to food :D !
You even featured me on friendster all the way even when i didnt featured you for long eh.
Somehow you became my Gan'Boyf suddenly cos of a bet that i made of not having a boyf.
You pranked me la. ): Meanie idiot. We still contacted each other after you and S brokeup.
Eventhough there was a period of time that we've stop contacting each other for reasons.
But i've always treated you as my best brother ever. (: A cute chubby little small boyboy!
Brother, im happy to have know you for these 528 days. Never regretted knowing you ya.
Eventhough sometimes you say de things abit not swee uh, but i dont mind la hahahahaha.
You'd never fail to make me smile seriously. Thanks for cheering me up with your words.
Also still continuing to takecare of me and treating me to food even when im the older one.
- I know you love me more than my blog song! Be honoured, i never dedicated people on my blog before. & You're my only Brother! Brother must be happy okays :D ! You'll find a girl that will suit you soon. Dont sad. You're still a xiaodidi ! - Anyway others about today was posted on wordpress. Cos i dont want my blog be too wordy. ):
Double sugar coated dreams. Kissed goodbye. @ 11:07 AM
Everything's just sweet talks, coax isnt it? I dont know why you can totally flipped to another one person totally different within just one day. Everything you said, did you even mean it? Or was it just saying for the sake of saying it. I really dont understand. But i want to. So tell me. Why can you tell me so many things in one day, to make me so happy. And the next day you say something that would make me so fucking upset. Opposite of what you were saying and doing. To: P. Lovelove.I miss the days that i would message you asking if want to meet or if we are going out for movie. I miss the days that i would beg you to take photos with me even when you dont want to. I miss the days that i would throw a fuss because you ask me to plan for outings and everything. I miss the days that i would have to think of something to do and give you on anniversaries. I miss the days that i would tell you that i have bruises and you would actually rub them for me. I miss the days that i would wait for you to go back home, finish your dota and finally call me. I miss the days that i would have to listen to whatever you say and do whatever you want me to. I miss the days that i would start hugging you and kissing you like some mad fellow cos imy. I miss the days that i would say i love you and miss you at any possible time that im able to say. I miss the days that i would actually find ways to make you happy because i made you angry. I miss the days that i would have to try make myself happy & smile even when im very moody. I miss the days that i would have to force myself not to cry because we just had a arguement. I miss the days that i would have to go home myself because you have no money send me home. I miss the days that i would ask you if i could send you home so that can see you for longer time. I miss the days that i would have to think of something to do when truth is there nothing at all. I miss the days that i would crack my dry brain to think places to go & you would reject all of it. I miss the days that i would have to endure whatever unhappiness. But still continue loving you. I miss the days that i would have to let you vent anger on sometimes cos of your bad temper. I miss the days that i would wait for you to finally send me a long and sweet message i wanted. I miss the days that i would feel neglected and upset and you would find ways to cheer me up. I miss the days that i would have to wait for your message for dont know how many fuck hours. I miss the days that i would feel that im not good enough so that i have to do even better for you. I miss the days that i would have to feel happier when you scold me because im feeling moody. I miss the days that i would do anything for you at all because you're the one that i really loved. I miss the days that i would dont care about anything just to meet you and to see your cute face. I miss the days that i would have to force myself to wakeup for school because you want me to. I miss the days that i would stop myself from doing all the bad things and try be a better person. -
All this things that i've been through, things that i've changed about myself. Things i've endured. Its just not enough to hold you back any longer. You proved to me that you're happier. And say that things arent going to be the same anymore. Showing me that i should stop fighting for what i love. Saying and doing things that would hurt me more than anything. I really felt like giving up my life. But whats the use? You'll continue your life as per normal like you're doing now. Since it has been happy for you the past few days then go ahead with it. I wont say anything anymore. I have no strength to fight for anything anymore. Since promises are meant to be broken is just of course a dream for it all to be fufilled. Then i find no point continuing to strive hard. You keep on doing the things that i've always wanted to do with you. Promises that you would made and not fufill. Im not the only one. I dont know why you just keep want to continue piss me off like this. I really dont want to care anymore, or even check up on you already. But can i really? Who knows. Just treat that kailin doesnt even exist. She's a nobody from the start anyways. Forget it. MIA
she'll talk to you if she wants to.
Feeling down down down. @ 12:58 AM
Im currently craving for Sushi, Saba fish, Kimchi, Subway, Barley & French fries yo !
I want to watch movie, i want to go to Henderson Waves to walkwalk . D:
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Its 10:13 & im not in school. Cos TOTALLY HAVE NO FUCKING MOOD go. So what, who would care anyway. Wondering if i should go school not. Hais. This is so sucky. I wanna stay at home. Cos im in a really bad mood that i would start doing all the bad things that i never thought of doing.
Monday, September 28, 2009
This is truly just a cover up. I missed you. ): @ 4:45 PM
Shall post about the weekends. Since i found out about something that i didnt wanted to find out again. Im just so kaypo. Call myself stupid and dumb. Feeling moody right now. Stupid Noah still at tongseng i think. Without me! I wanna dota toozxc. I want movieee! Sad die me. ): I cant help but to feel so moody today! Cos im studying. & the others seems to have so many things to do.
Sunday, September 27, 2009
Everything's gone. Everything. @ 11:49 PM
猜不透
相處會比分開還寂寞 兩個人都只是得過且過 無法感受每次觸摸 是真的 是熱的 如果忽遠忽近的灑脫 是你要的自由 那我寧願回到一個人生活 如果忽冷忽熱的溫柔 是你的藉口 那我寧願對你從沒認真過 到底這感覺誰對誰錯 我已不想追究 越是在乎的人越是猜不透 - Drea introduced this song to Fel. Hearing it so many times, addicted to it already. Its really nice. Should go hear it. (: I've felt like this before seriously. The feeling's really not good. I dont know if im lying to myself. But nevermind, time to face the facts. He doesnt want me back anymore. So i'll just stop running away from reality. Just have to put down the stress im giving him & let him live on with his life without me and just watch from behind. I'll be fine i guess. At least thats how i should be now. Nobody ever understand how im feeling inside anyways. Struggling like shit. But since the truth's out. Totally speechless. You'll think we wouldnt have to hurt each other. I would just keep check out on you and finding out things that i dont like to hear or see. I know you feel the same too. So if this is what you say about better. Then i really have nothing to say. I'll just be shouting my lungs out, crying my heart out. I look happier and have more things to do. But truth is that everything i do, everything i see. Just reminds me of you. I want to care about you, i want to tell you things. But im no longer that someone closest to you nor have the right to control or tell you what i dont like. Everything's so screwed in my life now i dont know how to clean up the mess. I tried everything that i could but it just doesnt help at all. Do i really want to be just friends? Will everything be better like you said? Im just wondering about all the outcomes that i could end up with. No good. We both seem happy but i know its all just a cover up. But there's nothing we can do. Trust my love for you wouldnt fade or be gone just yet even if you're not with me anymore. But things are just hard to say, i just dont believe in Love. I dont believe in anything anymore. Dont even believe in myself. Everything in my life's fake. Should i just look forward to the future and just stop looking back like you said to me? Am i able to do that? Would it even make a difference. Night time's just so torturing & hard to get over. Been trying things out to distract myself & before starting to study again. I hate more tuitions, >:( - Meet Vicky Sister > Walk around bugis > Eat & meet Katkat > Sky Lan > Home - Meet Caihong & Ratboy @ Chalet > Eat > Others came > Beach & Fireworks > Slack > Home - Meet Vicky Sister > Wedding Lunch > Others came > Slack > Eat > Movie > Cycle > Home Just trying to keep the smile up on my face. But its totally not what it seems. Kept thinking about things that i would cry out of a sudden at the weirdest timing that didnt linked. Dont know what i was thinking either. Nothing in my life is going out well. Even when it comes to friends. Its just so hard to live on life like that. Lets say i had my fair share of fun. Its really time to study. (:
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Even if the sky's falling down .
i'll be here , ♥I have a feeling someone's going to get unhappy for what i did in the weekends but im just trying to distract myself. ): Im sorry lovelove. Double hard work on studies, exams & tutions. Promise. (: -
All the photos & others will be posted on the next post / maybe just on my wordpress okays. Heh.
Thursday, September 24, 2009
(L) Sisters & Brothers. ♥ @ 2:20 AM
Okay, i shall be healthy and update blog more now :)
Went to school today, nothing much to do leh actually.
Met Noah, Lorraine and Mica at chicken rice store.
Stupid, then we were talking about the party. Dumb.
Made me sad when Lorraine said something wrong. ):
But nevermind la, its quite okay actually. Im fine ok!
Anyways class was like really boring today lah, sobs.
Went to walk around and waiting for Noah's friend la.
Check the movies we're going to watch tomorrow too.
Played arcade, Tekken! :) With Mable and Bernard.
After that Firhan finally came. Then we went library.
Cause some idiot wanted to read comic books, dumb!
Noah also gave me his friendship band yo. Hahahaha.
& Also waited for Aizat and Samuel to come over too.
Suppose to go to Noah's house de but changed mind.
Then went to Tongseng waited for them play dota. ):
Fucking headache lors, Firhan didnt play with them.
So he peied me chitchat until those stupid finishes lo.
Went downstairs to eat abit, kopping Noah's food. :D
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Cabbed down to Chaichee to meet Vicky & others lor.
Really didnt want to go de, but hais sister mah, yeahs.
Tio force go down so stupid. In the end bad mood die.
Regretted going down, ending totally expected de lah.
Got dao-ed even when i was there, hais damn emo k!
After that bus to Katong they were going to eat so er,
Me, Vicky and Junxian took bus to go back first lo. ):
Hais damn fucking emo, damn fucking emo, fuckfuck!
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Dont know whats wrong with you seriously leh. Sigh.
Already told you its not your fault, you not the cause.
But why are you still like that sia. Friends also cannot?
BAHHHHHHHH, i really dont know what to do alr la.
Making me so stress. Hopefully things would change!
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I miss Girlfriend, :) & Tomorrow's movie outing (Y). ♥
Take photo photo photo! Maybe go Kuibeh's at night !
Cant wait to go to the party too! I promised i will go k.
Wont back out last minute i swear, we're going high :)
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Days seem to be getting better i hope? Im really shag.
Dont know i should care much or dont even care at all.
Dont know i should even give a damn about anything.
Without you this few days feels weird, but you're fine.
So think im suppose to be fine too hur? Like you now.
Seemed to be having loads of things to do suddenly. ):
Maybe i should just do the same things too now hur ?
I really didnt want it to be like this way but i have to.
Since you've already moved along what i suppose do?
Kailin, wakeup! Your dreams are never coming true!
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Vicky's Domokun is with me ! :)
Wednesday, September 23, 2009
Do you know i missed you? :( @ 1:24 AM
我的快樂 會回來的,
離開不是誰給了誰的選擇.
我会努力比你更幸福.
Life's have been really boring and not easy already.
After everything that's been happening around.
I really dont know whats right or wrong anymore. :(
Just wanna have fun and make more new friends.
Why is it so hard to move along suddenly. Why is it.
Have been struggling long enough already, enough.
Want something to brighten up my day, like before.
But i know its not going to happen anymore, damn it.
Why is it that all this shits have keep happening hur.
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Hehehehehehehehe. Me shall be a happy kid today!
Im not stress, not sad. Im not confused, & is happy.
Noah said that we're really really good friends. :D
So cute right? Hahaha. Okokay i feel so crappy now.
I wonder if there's any place that i can go recently.
Want to go shan shan xin. And make myself happy!
Oh, & thanks Jerry for trying to lecture/comfort me.
Shocking lo, cos this time is not i call you cry de leh!
And you still remember me. :) Im really okay now k.
Im really not running away from anything, really. :(
Wonders how's Didi at aussie manzxc come back la.
I wanna go my prawning outing la, damn fuck manx.
Keep thinking about the things we plan do together.
The more i thing the more sad i get, cos its all gone k.
Fucking dont know how to live my life anymore lahs.
Just keep finding out things that i dont want to know.
I cant believe you're this kind of person, i swear zxc.
You're making me really hate you alot you know ma?
Really angry this time already, forget it. Fuck you.
To You know who ;
I seriously treat you like a super duper good friend.
Avoiding doesnt help in anything you understand?
It has totally nothing to do with you, and it wasnt k.
So brother, stop being like that can or not, i beg you.
I dont want things to end up like that can? Fuck it.
You know im happy to have a friend like you lehhh.
Aiya i dont know you want avoid how long seriously.
But i just hope, we still can be really good friends :)
Though this friday's outing should be gone alr bah.
Just really hope things will be different again soon k.
You're not a hongster la okay? :) Dont worry much!
Better keep all those things k! Esp the pink comb. ):
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Baby i really miss you so.
愛情不就是可以拥抱接吻吗, 这就是我们的距离。 - I want all the things in my life to go back as normal !
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
I just feel like dying right now. @ 12:10 AM
Im thinking for a whole day about what to post now.
Guess there's nothing much to talk about anyways.
What is there that's worth posting and be happy about.
I really dont know. Just hope everything will be fine.
But obviously i know its not. And it wont be the same.
Everything's going to change after yesterday night.
I promised you something i cannot do, im sorry.
Its not as easy as it seemed to me from the starting.
Know you want the best for me, and i would too.
But eventhough i know i can, i still dont wanna let go.
The stress, the sadness, the memories. Everything.
Im smoking again. I know i shouldnt be, i just help it k.
Just dont wanna be without you Boy. But who cares.
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Friends oh friends. Only people that can help me now.
Gonna make myself happy. Gonna pamper myself !
To be back that happy Kailin that have been neglected.
Everything's going to change! Im living back my life.
Thanks Shawn, Vicky, Johneh, Jolyn for caring alright.
Especially Shawn & Johneh for cheering me up lahhs.
Just need to keep myself busy, stop me from thinking.
Stupid hoping that ass still remembers about Friday!
If not im sure going to slaughter him like a pig lors.
Im so going to lose myself and have fun like fuck now.
Dont try to stop be from doing anything that i want.
I'll go bonkers i tell you! ): My cheeks damn pain now.
Want it to be like the same like you said it would be!
How can it be like this you tell me, tell me friend?!
If friends, equals not replying sms too then so be it k!
Im so going to break down really soon. IM SINGLE!
I have nothing to say anymore. I just hope you're happy.
Happy with that decision that you made. Really hope.
Nothing could turn you back, then so be it. I dont care alr.
It seemed so easy for me to think to let it and you all go.
But now its just so difficult. The memories are all still there.
Its something that you cannot delete away or dont think.
Wished you'd bang my head so hard i lost my memory.
But it didnt. Just left bruises all over that made it harder.
I had happy memories with you, but there was more bad's.
You think i can be happier like that, but i cant. I tell you.
All the hardwork and giving in is all going down drain now.
How happy can i get? Stop thinking that i will alright. Hais.
Its not that i dont want to. I really do want. But cannot.
TY Girlfriend :) , SISTERS & BROS !
I dont know if i can trust what you say anymore k.
Its breaking my heart when i've tried so hard to ;
& What happens? You give me this kind of shit? Zxc.
Is this the reason why this happens? Tell me la.
Seriously fuck you. I hate you more than anything.
Wednesday, September 16, 2009
Love sickness exists ? @ 1:36 AM
Okay, the haze is pissing me off seriously. Fuck you haze.
Imma having fucking terrible coughs, flu and fever. Gawd.
Fuck it, fuck everything. Fucking headache too. Fuck all.
Know im vulgar and unglam but fuck cares, forgive me la!
Buaytahan sia. I feel so damn sick. But i'll just update first.
Before i sleep i shall recall everything i did last week okay.
Wednesday, 0909
Had tuition so didnt do anything much. Stone whole day k.
Thursday, 1009
Baby's first day of work. Obviously i have nothing to do la.
Went to make my ezlink cos i lost the previous one i had. ):
But nevermind, i have concession now k! No more topups!
So me, mummy and brother didnt have anything to do too.
Wanted to go suntec walkwalk but changed our minds bah.
Headed to eastcoast park ourself instead cos want cycling.
Baobei'sfeeling down & i couldnt help her, hope she's fine. ):
Waited for daddy to pick us up and went for our dinner la.
Ate steamboat for around 2 hours i think then head home.
Friday, 1109
Fucking tired in the morning, met mummy at toapayoh.
Home, then slept like a stupid pig cos damn tired lah. D:
Went to meet Yenhua Jiaojiao at bugis. And i was late heh!
So i had to treat her to her yoghurt to appease her la. Sobs.
And then waited for something to be done first then home.
But in the end i wanted to find Baby, thought he's moody. ):
Didnt really get reaction and appreciation i wanted though.
So nevermind, i had to go over to my auntie's house what.
But on the way had really bad cramps so about to faint alr.
Saturday, 1209
Was really happy in the noon cos of something. Hahahah :)
Then Joresar and Katkat wanted to meet and hang out.
So i agreed and waited for the time to meet them lors. Heh.
Met Joresar first at Serangoon station, waited for Katkat!
Took bus over to Chompchomp to meet Frenchfries mofo :)
Katkat treat us to Sugarcane, thanks uh big sister! Hahah.
Ate stingray and oyster omelette and Frolick yoghurt after.
Slacked at Macdonalds with Katkat again then cab home.
Monday, 1409
Metup with Baby finally :) Went for movie. Traveller's wife!
The show's actually not bad la. Quite sad though. Touching.
Had hotdog factory dinner before the movie. Love mug float!
Baby sent me home to the bus stop, i walked home. Thanks.
& Today, 1509
Went to meet Baby again. Waited for his interview finished.
Then trained to Dhoby to meet him and Zhengzhi, dinner.
Bused to Somerset to go Cineleisure to find things to do lors.
Saw Ryan on the way too. Went to get a room to rent movie.
Watched Love matters in the room. Not that bad too. Hah :)
I not feeling that well today. Sorry baby for the attitude. ♥
Took 30mins to walk home, road seemed uber long. Sighs..
Wednesday, September 9, 2009
But you've already lost . @ 5:57 PM
Okay, time to update my blog again already. ):
I've done Baby's blogskin already. Now mine's.
My blogskin looks ugly compared to his one.
Thats so sad, gah im so bored of my blogskins.
Should i make one same as Baby's for mine?
Gah, but im lazy to do everything now. Bored.
Baby's outside now, and we really never meet.
He's going to start work for comex on thurs.
And its like until Sunday. ): My lonely holiday.
I cant help but just to feel sad, veryvery sad.
The song dusk and summer makes me cry! ):
Anyways here's an update of what happened.
0609, Sunday.
Happy seventh month to me and Baby, smiles. :)
Went to bugis to get a new belt for new buckle.
Took neocard with Baby again, stupid machine!
Had nothing to do already, so we went to cathay.
Bought tickets for movie and went for our Astons!
After watched G-force. Was kinda cute, not bad.
Baby sent me home after that, took some photos.
Monday & Yesterday.
Went to meet Baby and Zhengzhi at Monstercue.
Walked to Plaza meet Marc, Jo & frenchfries.
Ate mac for dinner & Walked back for pool again.
Yesterday pei-ed Baby to go IMM to for training.
Waited for him quite long at Popular, reading. ):
Ate dinner there, walked around aimlessly. Lols.
Baby sent me home again. Thanks Baby again. ♥
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Gonna work hard & study soon, wish me luck. :)
Library with Noah and Lorraine too! Gahs.
Hopefully we'll really study and dont keep play!
Ohdear, my poor holidays are for studying. :(
I wanna have fun, meet Baby and play all day la.
Holidays seriously sucks big time manzxc. Pui.
 
Sunday, September 6, 2009
Happy 7th's. ♥ @ 2:24 AM
Time to update my dead blog again already.
Know why? Cos its finally anniversary date again!
Expecting Baby to blog de, but he didnt. Pui. ):
Anyways supposedly was going for prawning de.
But always last minute cancel, so suckneh lors.
So met Bi alone instead, went plaza to eat dinner.
Had no place to go, so went to tampines instead.
To get a 7th month's present for Baby. Smile.
Ate sushi, ballballs, & bandung again. Standard!
Baby sent me home after that, thanks Baby :)
How about a little photos? Its peixun's fave shop!
Helps you to massage cum. Coolios right? Haha.
Okay, its meant to be a joke. I mean no harm. ):
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Cant wait for long awaited Aston's later yo. Yay!
& Bi's going to kill me cos im not asleep yet, oh no.
Happy 7th's Month Baby. I love you forever. ♥
Your kisses are the best ever. Passionate as ever.
  
I ♥ My Boyfriend, Bpx ! :)
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
Bored to shytzxc. @ 1:09 AM
Got so bored and went to read xiaxue's blog again.
Her blog seems to entertain me whenever im bored.
But she's not updating! Really bores me to max! :(
So nevermind, i went blog hopping thus to weelee's.
Found quite interesting and true things, here's it ;
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How guys should behave on first dates / dates?
To lose bonus points
1) Vulgarities / squatting on the floor / looking at her boobs / constant phone calls or smsing.
2) Sms while she's talking, look everywhere but her when she's talking. Trust me, she'll get really fedup.
3) Pay for her shopping. If you do that, she'll think that you're loaded and start to like you for your money and money alone.
4) Stare in the air. Bring her under block and "slack".
To gain bonus points
1) Open doors for her. Be it taxi, car, restaurant doors, she'll be pleased.
2) Look at her when she is talking. Not intensly, pervert kind of look. Just the kind of look you'll give a pretty girl. She'll like the attention, and appreciate the fact you're paying attention.
3) Order her food, pay for everything.
4) Bring her to interesting places. Ask her what she would like to eat for supper, (example) if she likes bean curd, bring her to geylang where there are many famous bean curd stores.
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When quarrel ...
If its because of you, and its really serious..
Apologise. Beg for forgivness! Tell her you won't do it again, and please mean what you say.
If its not serious,
hug her, tell her you're sorry, (if its because of attitude or something), tell her you'll try to change but please give time and be understanding.
If its becuase of her, and its really serious..
Ask yourself whether are you willing to forgive her, at the end of the day. She still loves you. You still love her. That's what matters. Not which guy she secretly smses (example). Just tell her please don't do it again, and say something like: "It really hurts me." If multiple times, break.
If its not serious, *
ask her why she gives attitude for no apparent reason. (example) There might be a reason. If not why all of a sudden she show you black face? It may be becuase of something you said or did, or the way you acted. Also, when asking her why she gave you attitude, give her time to answer. Its difficult to answer. Because she might be afriad her answer seems petty or childish to you. Coax her gently by saying: "Darling, if you don't tell me, we can't solve it. It'll happen again in the future." Be patient! Don't just shout at her and start screaming at her for giving you frequent attitudes. She'll start to loathe you for not understanding her feelings. After she tells you, give her a hug, and tell her you love her, and you'll try to understand her.
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How to make a relationship last?
Sms. *
Don't forget to sms her sweet things. They can be simple messages, but mean alot. "I miss you" and "I love you" might not seem a long sms, but they mean alot.
Smsing her in the night after she sleeps, so that she'll see a sms from you when she wakes up, means alot also. Sms her things like "darling im going to sleep now. I miss you alot, can't wait to see you tomorrow. I'll bring you somewhere nice to eat tomorrow okay? Sweet dreams, i love you." She'll meet you with a happy face everyday, without fail.
Should I buy for her flowers?
Technically...Girls dont even like flowers at all... Most girls. They just feel happy that you're thoughtful. That's all. Something more practical will be a new make up item she wants.If you still insist on buying her flowers, okay. A romantic yet simple way of giving them to her, can be putting the flowers into an umbrella, opening it up on top of her, and watch her suprised and happy face as the flowers tumble out.
Bring her to new places, do new things. *
Find new places to bring her to try the food, do new things together like going camping or maybe booking a hotel for one night and spending the night together. You can go for a day of shopping, or a night of clubbing, da bao food secretly up to the hotel, enjoy dinner, have sex, bathe together without worrying his parents will suddenly wake up and go to sleep, cuddled together under clean crisp white sheets.
And please plan a suprise for your girlfriend too. Get her a nice necklace, ring or watch, it'll be sweet. Or like I said, a night at a cosy hotel.
You must do things like that so as to keep the relationship young and sweet. Once you start neglecting, it'll start falling apart
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Okay, it have been edited a little. (Credits: T.Weelee; for the contents.)
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