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    Wednesday, September 2, 2009

    Bored to shytzxc. @ 1:09 AM
    Got so bored and went to read xiaxue's blog again.
    Her blog seems to entertain me whenever im bored.
    But she's not updating! Really bores me to max! :(
    So nevermind, i went blog hopping thus to weelee's.
    Found quite interesting and true things, here's it ;
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    How guys should behave on first dates / dates?
    To lose bonus points
    1) Vulgarities / squatting on the floor / looking at her boobs / constant phone calls or smsing.
    2) Sms while she's talking, look everywhere but her when she's talking. Trust me, she'll get really fedup.
    3) Pay for her shopping. If you do that, she'll think that you're loaded and start to like you for your money and money alone.
    4) Stare in the air. Bring her under block and "slack".

    To gain bonus points
    1) Open doors for her. Be it taxi, car, restaurant doors, she'll be pleased.
    2) Look at her when she is talking. Not intensly, pervert kind of look. Just the kind of look you'll give a pretty girl. She'll like the attention, and appreciate the fact you're paying attention.
    3) Order her food, pay for everything.
    4) Bring her to interesting places. Ask her what she would like to eat for supper, (example) if she likes bean curd, bring her to geylang where there are many famous bean curd stores.
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    When quarrel ...
    If its because of you, and its really serious..
    Apologise. Beg for forgivness! Tell her you won't do it again, and please mean what you say.
    If its not serious,
    hug her, tell her you're sorry, (if its because of attitude or something), tell her you'll try to change but please give time and be understanding.

    If its becuase of her, and its really serious..
    Ask yourself whether are you willing to forgive her, at the end of the day. She still loves you. You still love her. That's what matters. Not which guy she secretly smses (example). Just tell her please don't do it again, and say something like: "It really hurts me." If multiple times, break.
    If its not serious, *
    ask her why she gives attitude for no apparent reason. (example) There might be a reason. If not why all of a sudden she show you black face? It may be becuase of something you said or did, or the way you acted. Also, when asking her why she gave you attitude, give her time to answer. Its difficult to answer. Because she might be afriad her answer seems petty or childish to you. Coax her gently by saying: "Darling, if you don't tell me, we can't solve it. It'll happen again in the future." Be patient! Don't just shout at her and start screaming at her for giving you frequent attitudes. She'll start to loathe you for not understanding her feelings. After she tells you, give her a hug, and tell her you love her, and you'll try to understand her.
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    How to make a relationship last?
    Sms. *
    Don't forget to sms her sweet things. They can be simple messages, but mean alot. "I miss you" and "I love you" might not seem a long sms, but they mean alot.

    Smsing her in the night after she sleeps, so that she'll see a sms from you when she wakes up, means alot also. Sms her things like "darling im going to sleep now. I miss you alot, can't wait to see you tomorrow. I'll bring you somewhere nice to eat tomorrow okay? Sweet dreams, i love you." She'll meet you with a happy face everyday, without fail.

    Should I buy for her flowers?
    Technically...Girls dont even like flowers at all... Most girls. They just feel happy that you're thoughtful. That's all. Something more practical will be a new make up item she wants.If you still insist on buying her flowers, okay. A romantic yet simple way of giving them to her, can be putting the flowers into an umbrella, opening it up on top of her, and watch her suprised and happy face as the flowers tumble out.

    Bring her to new places, do new things. *
    Find new places to bring her to try the food, do new things together like going camping or maybe booking a hotel for one night and spending the night together. You can go for a day of shopping, or a night of clubbing, da bao food secretly up to the hotel, enjoy dinner, have sex, bathe together without worrying his parents will suddenly wake up and go to sleep, cuddled together under clean crisp white sheets.

    And please plan a suprise for your girlfriend too. Get her a nice necklace, ring or watch, it'll be sweet. Or like I said, a night at a cosy hotel.

    You must do things like that so as to keep the relationship young and sweet. Once you start neglecting, it'll start falling apart
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    Okay, it have been edited a little. (Credits: T.Weelee; for the contents.)
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